Created on Tuesday, 21 February 2017 09:28
Written by Aaron
I recently read an article about pastors and what causes (or can cause) burnout. One of the largest causes of burnout is division within a church’s eldership. At Element, we believe the word “elder” is synonymous with the word “pastor”; as a result, Element’s eldership is very small—currently only three people. If you were to count all the people Element has had as elders (including those who have moved away), our total would be a whopping five people.
You can go to the “Who We Are
” page of our website and see our list of current staff and elders (myself, Eric, and Mike), but this doesn’t show you Tom Holmquist (Montana or bust) or Jonathan Whitaker (who occasionally teaches when he is back in California or writes a blog when he is feeling whimsical).
The article I read showed that if a church has a power struggle among the Elders, the burnout risk is four times as high! If the Elders have a bad relationship with one another, the risk is almost five times as likely. Yet, when the Elders act in a singular vision, burnout is nearly cut in half
. Praying together also has the effect of cutting the risk of burnout in half.
I tell you this because the Eldership at Element is on the same page in what we hope Jesus would do in all of our lives. We want to see Jesus high and exalted (above ourselves), redemption understood in how Element functions and teaches, and true worship lived out in everything we do as a church body. We believe the Gospel is practical and speaks to every part of our lives. I feel blessed to serve with the Elders at Element.
In the coming months, Element will be entering a new phase of life. Our lease in our current building will be ending and we will be moving. In the midst of this transition, I want you to know that our vision hasn’t changed (although, it may have become more refined over time). Your Elders want to see Jesus proclaimed in all we do—no matter where we are. It is humbling and exciting, and I hope you share in those feelings as well.
1 Peter 5:1-2 So I exhort the elders among you, as a fellow elder and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, as well as a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed: shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory
We serve under our great Head Shepherd, Jesus. It is an honor and privilege to lead and serve Element as a church body, especially because we can trust Jesus in where He leads us.
Created on Tuesday, 31 January 2017 10:15
Written by Aaron
False memories cause people to come up with some crazy ideas, the “Mandela Effect” is one of those. The name the Mandela Effect comes out of a collective conscious memory of many people who believed Nelson Mandela died while he was in prison (he didn’t, he actually died December 5, 2013). So many people believe they remember him dying that some people have postulated that there must be multiple universes and we are remembering facts from a different timeline.
It makes me think of the crazy hoops we will jump through to not have to come to grips with the fact that sometimes we are simply wrong.
This whole thing came to my attention because I was reading an article on Relevant’s website that talked about people trying to find a movie called Shazaam
staring the comedian Sinbad. There was a movie in the 90s called Kazaam
staring Shaquille O’Neil, but they swear that wasn’t it. This movie Shazaam
doesn’t exist, the comedian Sinbad said he never made, but some people will not believe their memory could be wrong.
There are tons of these false memories, I’ll just give you a few:
Queen’s song “We Are the Champions” does not end with “of the world,” it just ends.
Darth Vader never says, “Luke, I am your father,” he says, “no, I am your father.”
C3PO has a silver leg.
The Queen in Snow White never says, “Mirror, mirror on the wall,” she says, “magic mirror on the wall.”
Fruit Loops is spelled Froot Loops.
Mr. Monopoly doesn’t have a monocle
Curious George never had a tail.
How many did you think were true?
This is why I think it is important to read the Scriptures and RE-READ the Scriptures. Sometimes we are so sure the Bible says something it doesn’t, and that could lead to disastrous consequences. I know, for me personally, every time I read something in the Scriptures, I swear I have read a hundred times, I always see something new. I believe remembering who God is by being immersed in His words given to us is a great help in all of our need.
Throughout the Old Testament, God continually reminded His people to “remember.” The Hebrew word for remember is Zakar
. It can mean so many different things in terms of memory that it is sometimes difficult for us to relate to the word correctly, as most of us did not grow up in a culture that stressed it so frequently. Zakar
has the connotation that in remembering something, it then changes how you act and treat others, as well as how you treat God. It essentially means that those who have a relationship with God will remember
they have a relationship with God and act like
they have a relationship with God...to the extent that
everyone around them will know they have a relationship with God.
The Scriptures are clear that God remembers us. In Genesis 8 God remembers Noah, Exodus 2 He remembers His covenant with Israel, Genesis 30 He remembers Rachel, on and on the scriptures remind us that God is faithful. Deuteronomy 31:6 “Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
This is a promise that God continues to bring into fulfilment through the person of Jesus.
I do believe there are certain things we are called to not
remember, such as the things that lead to bitterness, but even while doing that we are told to remember God. The implications in failing to remember God would mean that we have abandoned Him. It is interesting that scripture does not speak of God abandoning us and yet we so often abandon Him, most of the time when we need Him most.
We forget God and remember our pain, which is the exact opposite of all that God says to do. Think of all the money our world would save in therapy bills, medication, and late night infomercials if remembering God and forgetting the evil done to us truly became our reality. That would be better than the crazy Mandela Effect any day!
Created on Tuesday, 24 January 2017 13:26
Written by Aaron
Marketing and research into demographics is big money in advertising. Everyone is trying to put people in the correct hole in order find out how to market the right “stuff” (be it body wash, cable tv, or diapers young and old) so companies can make more money. Figuring out who people are, where they go, what they like, who has the most disposable income, and who is most likely to spend that disposal income is what keeps some executives up at night.
I was reading through some very broad categories this week and thought it would be fun if I threw them out for you to see where you would fall. These are not like most research companies who want you to buy their phone or bubble gum, I picked these because they reflect people who would read this blog (some times that could be less than 10 people).
These categories come from Barna.org
Here is one about age…are you:
Millennials: Born between 1984 and 2002
Gen-Xers: Born between 1965 and 1983
Boomers: Born between 1946 and 1964
Elders: Born between 1945 or earlier
In thinking about the above categories remember your childhood and what things brought you the most joy. Did you have cell phones, have to wear a helmet when you road your bike, was your mom spanking you in the middle of the street not only acceptable but normal?
In regard to faith are you:
Practicing Christian: Those who attend a religious service at least once a month, who say their faith is very important in their lives and self-identify as a Christian.
How about church attendance:
Born again: Have made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is still important in their life today and believe that, when they die, they will go to heaven because they have confessed their sins and accepted Jesus Christ as their savior.
Evangelical: Made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is still important in their life today and believe that, when they die, they will go to heaven because they have confessed their sins and accepted Jesus Christ as their savior, plus seven other conditions. These conditions include saying their faith is very important in their life today; believing they have a personal responsibility to share their religious beliefs about Christ with non-Christians; believing that Satan exists; believing that Jesus Christ lived a sinless life on earth; asserting that the Bible is accurate in all that it teaches; believing that eternal salvation is possible only through grace, not works; and describing God as the all-knowing, all-powerful, perfect deity who created the universe and still rules it today. Being classified as an evangelical is not dependent upon church attendance or the denominational affiliation of the church attended.
Non-evangelical born again Christians: meet the born again criteria but not all of the seven other criteria to be classified as an evangelical Christian.
Other faith: identify with a non-Christian faith, or identify as a Christian but report beliefs not aligned with historic, orthodox Christianity.
Notional Christians: identify as Christian, but do not meet the born again criteria.
No faith/skeptic: identify as agnostic or atheist, or as having no faith.
Very active: attended a church service in the past seven days, not including a special event such as a wedding or a funeral.
Semi-active: attended a service within the past month (but not within the past week).
Less active: attended a service within the past six months (but not within the past month).
There are literally thousands of categories and sub-categories that others break people into (or we do depending on circumstance). After you figure where you fall on these categories ask yourself if that is where you want to remain. In what areas do you want to grow? What categories aren’t listed above that you would list for yourself?
I know this blog isn’t what you would normally except on a church site, but I guess that puts us in a category all of our own.
Created on Tuesday, 17 January 2017 17:44
Written by Aaron
Look, I know we live in California and everyone likes to mock us when we complain about it being cold…but just because they live in a place that nothing can survive without human ingenuity doesn’t make my plight less severe when the temperature drops into the 30s. I was thinking about this the other day when looking in my backyard covered with bone chilling frost (the back yard was covered with frost, not me). In my own little way I call this “snow” because it’s the only other season I get.
It seems to me, over the last couple of years, we didn’t get a winter, just variations of summer. Now that winter is actually here, at least our version of it, I find myself feeling like it isn’t enough. I want colder, I want more rain, I want more clouds and bundled up snuggling with my wife as we binge watch some stupid TV show.
I think I always want more.
But not more in a good way.
Like the last blog I wrote (PWS
) about my package withdrawal syndrome, I find myself in a kind of funk after the holidays this year. I keep trying to “get into” things or hope something different would happen that would motivate me to feel like life is kicking me into gear again. This is really what the problem is, what do we do when we feel like we don’t have motivation.
This is why I believe that the Gospel (the good news of what Jesus did and continues to do) is so important. The Gospel reminds us that our motivation is simply a response to what God has already done. I think it is why Paul says, “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
(1 Cor 10:31) Or, “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him
.” (Col 3:17)
When Paul says these words, he isn’t talking about working hard so God loves us, he is talking about loving God in all we do as the motivation for what we do. Rather than waiting to be inspired, we need to remember what Jesus has done and that should inspire us. When wondering, “what should me out of bed” or “off the couch” any given day, we should remember that the glory of God is what motivated God to save and rescue us. If God’s own glory motivated redemption, how much more should it motivate us to live lives that honor His name?
I am not saying that snuggling with my wife can’t be glorifying to God, I believe it can, but waiting to be inspired to do something worthwhile is missing the point. All inspiration for life and godliness sits directly in front of us, for us to ignore it is folly.
Created on Sunday, 01 January 2017 15:15
Written by Aaron
I think I am experiencing a new phenomenon that could only happen in America after a holiday like Christmas. I am calling it P.W.S. (which stands for Package Withdrawal Syndrome). I think there should be a study done on this to see how serotonin levels in my brain are affected by what is happening to me, or more specifically, what I am currently feeling; I am experiencing withdrawals!
For weeks, I was receiving packages from Amazon, or some other online retailer, every day at my door with my name on it. Even though I had to pay for what was in these said packages, I started to feel like someone (me, namely) loved me. Now that Christmas is over, the package deliveries have stopped (or at least slowed considerably), and I find myself longingly looking for boxes on my front door step. I am starting to get kind of sad.
Withdrawal syndrome is real, even if no one has ever linked it to packages at your front door before. Withdrawal syndrome has also been called “discontinuation syndrome,” which I guess would actually make more sense for what I am going through. Typically, it only happens with reduction or discontinuation of certain types of medication, but can’t package delivery be a type of soothing balm for someone as insecure as me?
People experience withdrawals with all kinds of things: alcohol, antidepressants, nicotine, opioids, benzodiazepines…even cannabis! Even though I don’t have a degree in neuroscience, I am going to call P.W.S. a real thing (because we live in an internet culture and self-diagnosis is how most of us operate). Let me give you the symptoms and the correct course of treatment if you are experiencing P.W.S. and don’t know what to do next.
P.W.S. happens when a culture focuses too much on stuff, or things, to make themselves feel happy and fulfilled. P.W.S. has been closely linked to self-absorption, self-centeredness, or self-focus. When the thing that make one feel better is removed, he or she begins a slow spiral into depression, which may result in more packages being ordered from online retailers to self-medicate. This cycle can result in a lifestyle of accumulation of things that a person doesn’t need, but feels like they have to have; it can also result in massive debt.
The only cure? Killing the self.
When I say “killing the self,” I do not mean physical death, although if P.W.S. is not taken care of soon enough, it may eventually result in that outcome. Killing of self refers to what we worship and where our gaze lingers. In Matthew 16:24 Jesus says, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.”
Jesus uses an implement of death to speak about following Him and living in the Kingdom of God.
Tim Keller says about this verse, “A better way to put it is the minute you believe in Jesus Christ you died on the cross with him.”
As followers of Jesus, every day we get up and remember we died to our old way of life, of looking for packages and things to bring us joy. In Jesus’ day if you happened to see someone walking with a cross, it wasn’t weird like it would be today; you would see that person and know it was the last thing they would ever do in their life—they were going to their death.
Jesus calls us to be a people who, in spite of trouble and hardship (sometimes as simple and confusing as package withdrawal), to look to the Cross in everything. It’s not focusing on our own death, but Jesus’
death and resurrection, that keeps our hearts and eyes on what matters most. Our own happiness and fulfillment was never meant to be what drove humanity; it was focus on, and worship of, the only one who is worthy of our devotion and praise.
That’s Jesus (not Amazon) in case you happened to be fuzzy on that last point.